Greetings readers I hope everyone had a fabulous weekend, have you taken notice that we are in a changing world of re-occurring issues that have either taught you how to become pro active in order to thrive in the midst of chaos. I have been reading from one of my social media sites and I was asked questions in regards to how to deal with bullies who either family members, at school or the work place. With everything that is going on having to protect ourselves from Covid-19, ongoing racism, and perception that leads to judgement, it is unfortunate to hear how people who lack character do not realize how unhappy they are and the only way to feel empowered is to Rule by demeaning language to tear down another’s self-image. Bullies who use verbal techniques excessively tease others, say belittling things and use a great deal of sarcasm with the intent to hurt the other person’s feelings or humiliate the other teen in front of others. Teenage bullying that includes emotional methods aims at getting someone else to feel isolated, alone and may even prompt depression. This type of bullying is designed to get others to ostracize the person being bullied. I talk about this in my new upcoming book ‘A Journey Of a Sapphire” and how to recognize behavioral problems. According to statistics from Family First Aid, about 30 percent of teenagers in the U.S. have been involved in bullying, either as a bully or as a victim of teenage bullying. Data suggests that teenage bullying is more common among younger teens than it is among older teens. However, it may be that young teens are more prone to physical bullying, which is easier to identify, and that older teens are more sophisticated in methods of bullying that are not always exactly identified as such. Each request from someone who is uncertain about the obvious physical problems and injuries that can result from physical bullying. However, emotional, verbal and cyber bullying can deeply affect teens as well. It is important to protect your emotional and mental well being, by taking control of the situation before it escalates into sarcasm with the intent to hurt the other person’s feelings to humiliate.

 Bullying can happen in any number of places, contexts, or locations. Sometimes that place is online or through a cellphone. Bullying that occurs using technology (including but not limited to phones, email, chat rooms, instant messaging, and online posts) is considered electronic bullying. At 65 Max foundation we continue to have these on going discussions of nasty rumors – especially involving sexual gossip. Additionally, girls are more likely to use exclusion as teenage bullying technique than boys are. I have suggested it is best to cut off the line of communication by deleting or blocking how that individual can attack , and never give your energy to someone who lacks the common understanding that is unhealthy and toxic. Unfortunately when you become a adult 🙂 One would think that as people mature and progress through life, that they would stop behaviors of their youth. sadly, this is not always the case. Unhappy adults can be bullies, just as children and teenagers can be bullies. While adults are more likely to use verbal bullying as opposed to physical bullying, the fact of the matter is that adult bullying exists. The goal of an adult bully is to gain power over another person, and make himself or herself the dominant adult. They try to humiliate victims, and “show them who is boss.” being absolutely unaware that their unmatured tactics are far less effective and more embarrassing in my opinion. In today’s world as we are faced with uncertainty and unforgettable change, I hope to Inspire and to lead by what a person sees 🙂 not by how one person(s) judgement can cause a chain of jealousy, envy and assumptions ! well readers I have reached my destination Lol until next time do take care of yourselves and protect yourself against Covid-19 every bit of protection helps.. by visiting where you can buy Nasal, Mouth sprays, face and body wipes do have a wonderful day and I leave you with the quote of the day Peace beloveds 🙂

“Do Not Judge, You Don’t Know What Storm I’ve Asked Her To Walk Through”